Family can be the worst yet best group of people to grow up around. They are what natures you and guides you through this world. You see the world through their lens and having a lot of family members it can be hard to focus on yourself. I have jotted down a few things about my family but I honestly don't know what I should share first. I can pick apart the bad and tell you how toxic and judgmental they are, let alone stubborn and singleminded. Or I can tell you all the good, like endless parties we constantly through, the late night talk on the roof at willet or the flights we always catch .I have written a lot about my family but I’m not sure if I’m ready to be that honest with them. Ugh. what should I share first... the yin or the yang?